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I'm having "One Of Dem Days". Remember that song by Monica? Her first album Miss Thang was pretty good. You may or may not, depending on your age. I haven't thought about that song for years, until I was thinking about the title for today's blog.

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So yeah, I'm feeling kind of blah. Doing too much thinking about life, business, my mom, my future. And it's overwhelming me, but I will get through this. I'm taking time for myself and trying to be a better sister and friend. Although I don't think I'm doing a good job in those aspects. I'm a loner by nature, so it's a task no matter how much I love and care for a person, to be social sometimes.

~Work Breaks. This means taking a break when I need to. I've been taking most Saturday's off, for the last month or so and I kind of like it. The guilt of not working, is slowly going away.

~Walking. If I need to take a walk in the middle of the day to clear my mind, I do it. Exercise in any form is always good!

~Bedtime. Continuing to go to be in bed by 10 p.m. at the latest. This also means no social media, except listening to a podcast or audiobook, to lull me to sleep. It's a bad habit that I'm still on the fence about. Should I use it to lull me to sleep or should I fall asleep in silence?

~Baths. I'm back to taking baths in the evening. Partly because it's a great way to relax before bed and because I've had some high pain days, in the last week, from the fibromyalgia and osteoarthritis.

~Crying. When the tears want to come, I let them. I'm not a cryer in general, but since my mom died things have changed.

~Relationships. Just checking in with friends & family, with a simple text or message. If I can't call them up or see them in person. I'm working on this this.

~Positivity. Lastly, positive thoughts and words, to myself. No matter I rotten I may be feeling. I'm still not 100% convinced that it works but I'll continue to do this, in the hope that it will come to fruition.

I kind of forgot about that light thingy, for S.A.D, I was supposed to buy. I'll look into that today.
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Till next time,

Nadia

No I'm not pregnant, nor have I been to a baby shower in a long time. I'm also not talking about baby showers in general. The ones that your friends/family throw you.

I'm talking about baby showers held by the new grandma. Not a problem if that's THE baby shower. In bad taste if it's a gift-grab baby shower. Which I think a lot of them are.

Example: New mom-to-be lives in another city. Grandma-to-be throws a baby shower & invites her friends. Mom-to-be is not in contact with most or all of invitees (grandmas friends). Mom-to-be doesn't come down for shower but attends the shower via skype. As far as everyone knows, nothing was preventing the mom-to-be from attending. Yes, skype. At least get your ass down & accept your gifts in person.

I'm not talking about your mothers friends with whom you have a relationship with. That's different.

Why on earth would I expect gifts or a baby shower from people who are not a part of my life? Most of whom I never speak to. I personally would feel embarrassed to accept these gifts, whether I needed them or not. But that's just me.

I can't stop people from throwing these gift grabs but I sure won't be attending them or sending a gift. And no, I'm not miserable or jealous, I just don't like being used.

Is this new? Has this always been going on? I think it's tacky? Your thoughts?

Song of the Day:No Going Back - Memoirs No Going Back, Rox, Memoirs, 2010, Rough Trade. Click here to see No Going Back. (Links may not work in all countries.)

Till next time,

Nadia